Parents of new crisis novice parents can not know

Parents child rearing crisis novice

lingyuwang· 2017-01-19 22:29:06

, a new parent's parenting crisis

1, think of their great

even if you have had the experience of raising children, does not mean that you will be very powerful. Remember, every child is a different individual, the same way may not work. Therefore, you should continue to learn, in order to do the best.

2, the child is better than the others

if your child wins in the race, or he won the math, this is just a temporary phenomenon. This does not mean that your genes have bred a superman, and do not think that skill development and education is a temporary, you need to constantly teach children.

to educate children to avoid making unnecessary mistakes.

3, assuming a child like you

this is a novice parents common mistakes. Your child is less likely to be like you or your partner, and he is more likely to have those pesky genes like any of your relatives. You need to adapt to the child's style, because he is white, do not know how to adapt to you.

4, the child will respect you

do not think that the child will respect you because of your strict tolerance, he will only because you do not respect you. So give up smoking, work hard to earn money, exercise, read books, then your child will have the same habit.

two, what is the right parenting concept?

1, set yourself as an example

whatever you set the rules of the child, you and your partner should set an example. Children learn only from what they see and hear, so you and your partner are the fastest and most direct.

2, often communicate with each other

you should often communicate with their children. With the passage of time, you may no longer be the only outlet for the child, the child's life in the school do not understand, do not know the problems he faces. Therefore, you should often communicate with him in order to be more close to understand the child.

3, listen to children talk

whether you are chatting with children or communication, should listen carefully to the child to speak. This can show respect for the child, you can also get the respect of the child, narrow the distance between each other.

4, keep on learning

your child will continue to change, so you should keep changing. Continue to learn and grow with your child, so as to keep up with the trend of the times, keep up with the pace of children.

5, have a humble heart

no matter how successful your child is, how good you are, you should be modest. Although you may have a lot of credit, but most of it comes from the child's efforts, not you.

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