Three stream of parents want to have first-class children, this is a disease

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yixinli· 2017-02-09 03:30:31

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on New Year's Eve, Yunnan Zhenxiong County, 15 year old boy dragons (a pseudonym) serving pesticide suicide.

dragons parents work outside all year round, for he is too busy. According to the note and neighbor dragons described, the father is a violent temper, unhappy at home, often beaten child.

eccentric and rebellious dragons self-esteem strong, has endured silently, and finally in order to give yourself a relief, the choice of revenge suicide.

dragons suicide suicide note, he accused his father always gave him the pressure, make him uncomfortable: "

my parents in these years, they did not take care of my one day, but I don't hate them, because they have a great burden of … … but I can't stand, don't put their children in temper and , they are innocent, God send them to your side is that they love, not parental anger … &hellip ; Dad, I die, you'll be glad to you. Every pressing, I have no way, a unique death ending … … your unfilial son, certainly nothing to do a son , my treasure.

netizen comments: very sorry, some people are not yet adults, but the mind is too heavy. Some people, the mind is not mature enough, but premature birth.

Sanmao said: "most of the China parents, the child as a child as the lifeblood, will extend their lives and continue their life ideal and the expectations of did not complete, can be realized in children, think, their life experience, one hundred percent, can be transferred to the next education generation of on the body, and think that the child is must unconditionally obey their parents and can not resist the pressure of , it is produced by the. "

a involving 13 provinces of 15 thousand students report shows that middle school students every 5 in 1 people had the idea for the Dutch act, and Dutch act done accounted for 6.5% of the plan.

a psychological counseling data show that the main reason for youth suicide is learning. learning is not good but the parents forced to learn and learn to change the fate of family pressure, are caused by the tragedy fuse.

"do not study hard, grow up nothing" is the parents often hang on the mouth of a word. The

for their children the future heart is certainly not wrong, but if they don't work hard, but the children to become "powerful" "face" "glorify and illuminate the ancestors" who is tell some fantastic tales.

real education is to fight father , such an idea is accepted by more and more people.

data from Harvard open class What 'safairstart?

in the United States, a survey of 146 colleges and universities, students' family background, economic background. In these institutions, only 3% of the students were born in poverty, more than 70% of the students are rich. Parents are their children's starting line.

the spirit of struggle, professional ethics, even if the effort itself, to a large extent depend on the lucky family environment. whether it is you, or we dare not pretend.

has too many parents just ordinary workers and even ordinary citizens, "the light is alive already best".

used to have a message:

I am an ordinary person, I have no money, but I have enough time to accompany my children. I will send her to school every day in the kindergarten. I will pick her up in person and finish her homework with her every weekend. I don't expect her training as what great man, I only hope that she is in good health, good character, have proficiency in a particular line.

children "I'm sorry the world successful in the official career" sorry parents concept, parents are inferiority.

understand the reality, dare to admit their ordinary, accept the child is not perfect, do not put too much pressure on private expectations on their children, so parents can more valuable.

I never read, but children love learning;

side foot brush to see drama novels, scolded the child's desk is too stupid;

all day at home had the game, money sent to the child, and asked him not to fall behind.

in education, may not be able to do "first-class", but take it for granted that their children must become "first-class"".

such as parents, but the best results, do not want their own trouble, the child after the cow, he felt the credit in him; the child after promising, he felt that the main responsibility in you.

so it was fun: thought of as parents do not have to feel terrible exam, strengthen the management of parents is the first work to build a harmonious family.

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