Parenting: "I want to," listen to the child"

Children parents children I want

lingyuwang· 2017-03-30 01:25:37

: 2017-03-29 14:28:00 time parenting knowledge hits:

now parenting education, most parents really have such a misunderstanding: "my child how should do", "I want my children to where", "I want my children to learn certain courses or talent", so many, seems to be in the child's growth process, the role of parents is the beacon, guide the direction of life of children, children only under the guidance of their parents, to be on the right path.

many people love planting flowers, we only need regular watering, fertilization, basking in the sun, it can blossom, even, you can use the artificial method, change its shape, let it toward you that "beauty" in the direction of growth, finally, look at you carefully cultivated flowers and a sense of achievement not arise spontaneously.

only, not to educate the child is floricultured, children have their own nature, they think, they contact the world, perceive the world, they will have their own understanding, they will want to through their own forms, they will explore the world, and curiosity, have their own hobbies, maybe only three minutes of heat, but also on their own people and the environment around a feedback and understanding, but most of us parents are in their own thinking, condescending to tell the children what should do, what not to do, kid, in a time of education and reprimand, the child are helpless flawless, overcautious.

case: little Pan Pingshi strict demands on children, children are often told not to touch dirty things, far away from some dangerous things slowly, children do you want to develop in the direction of small pan felt particularly pleased, feel education is the most correct, until one day, a little thing to change their views......

day, the weather was very good, when the pen rest, just want to take the kids to the park, the park to park the car, led the children went to the park, walk to the door of the fountain, but the children do not want to go a step further, the pen is very strange, urging children to keep up with the child crying up to her, said: "this is too dangerous, I can't live! This pen before I noticed that there was some sewer cover beside the fountain, because the strip can be seen below, dark and deep, so I feel afraid, pen a bit helpless, feel the child is a bit too careful, the child in the past continue to move forward, go to the children's play area, see all the the children are playing on the slide, sand, small pan quickly motioned his son to play with you, but the child is standing next to see, did not want to join, the pen is very strange, asked his son: why don't we play together, the son looked at her and said to her, too dirty, not health! Lenovo to a short period of time, the two little things happened, the first time that he felt the way the education problems......

pen is a small example, but it is happening in the thousands on thousands of parents, parents thought that is very correct way of education, the child caused a variety of problems, in fact, parents should be aware of, let the children in their own way, to perceive, understand this world. And parents, just play a good supporting role in child error when appropriate to remind and help correct, and in some cases did not need too seriously, let him go to observe the world with their own eyes, even fell wrestle, dirty clothes......

so, don't try to imagine the way to transform the child, listen to the voices of children, understand what they need, let them with their own eyes, to discover the world more wonderful.

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