The children always freak, noisy, so the parents "cold violence"

Children parents reasons Dad

99jiankangwang· 2017-03-31 19:14:20

many parents said, now the child temper how so big, a frustrated, it's crying, where is a great. My children are often get real complaints, blow up. But I feel like most of the time the kids are with me. There must be some misunderstanding, I began to observe.

99%'s parents use cold violence in

1, the needs of children for children, you respond to it?

one day, I was sick and lay in bed. Mother in law with a child, 10 points, the child began to doze, want to let her accompany him. Said: "grandma, you come with me. Let's read books together. Grandma said, "OK, wait a minute. I'll be right here. "

all right here. Grandma suddenly received a phone call, and the phone began to talk about the long days of good friends do not contact. The children waited for a few minutes, grandma is not found, is a little impatient: "grandma, why don't you come? "Grandma, you come here, I'm tired." "grandma grandma ~ ~"

succession called grandma three times, grandma has no reply. Until the children quarrel, she turned to a child said: Hey, grandma calls. Then with the other end of the phone said: "you see, this is the case, so noisy ah. "Oh, it doesn't matter, no matter what.

listen, my heart a cold. Later, the child can not wait, he fell asleep.

I often see the yard yard, with the child's mother or grandmother just to chat with their own, casually perfunctory child. We often wait until the child is not good, only a tube of children. Also said the child too sticky people, too noisy, etc.. As everyone knows, their children in the cold violence.

2, did you focus your attention on your company 100%?

yesterday evening, invited me and dad play games with children. After two rounds of play, dad started talking to me about work. The child was found, said: Oh, you guys. My father insisted that he should finish the matter. The children shouted: "you guys!!!! "

a similar situation more than once two times, we played the game, my father received a phone call away, without any explanation.

last night, he fell off his stool. Everybody blamed him for being naughty. I asked him: why do you want to climb the stool? He said, "I want to get the toy. "I said," why don't you ask for help? He said: "Dad called on the balcony, my brother is watching the phone, grandma in the kitchen. They are so busy that they can't help me. "

heard here, I am ashamed. Imagine that scene, the child is helpless, the home is obviously a lot of people, but their own busy, he can only help themselves. What can I blame him for?

3, the child is not mad, is in loud demand!

most of the time, not really love children's love play small temper, too naughty. Because many times when he needs us, we all ignore them.

I said: small treasure, why do you so like shouting so fierce?

and he said, because you cannot hear.

yes, I watched it many times. The child is not without a good talk, but that we did not hear or did not reply to him. He said, "Dad, I want to watch cartoons. "My father didn't hear him, so he shouted again, but he didn't hear me. He just had to shout at his throat. We

too many times, such as when a child's, but he needs to know is, let us drink slobber or a hug, or think we focus on a bit with them.

the consequences of cold violence, you know?

1 the child becomes manic or depressed

some children know positive resistance, like my child, with a bigger voice, or angry, crying to attract our attention. But some children, parents often ignore them, ignore them, or even indifferent to them, they will no longer have hope for parents, there is demand - because it is useless to say.

" the consequences of the 2 children of parents lose a sense of trust and safety

without any explanation and description, and the children decide to ignore him. The child may not realize that his parents are indifferent to him because he has done something wrong. Not only does not allow his parents to reflect on their own mistakes, and even let him begin to lose faith in their parents, parents no longer feel safe. For a long time in the past, parent-child relationship is very difficult to harmony.

to deal with the consequences of the 3 children of parents mood feel guilty about

" children can not feel, understand that you are for
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