I'd rather you don't like children, and I don't want you to kid them like that

Child second child Qian Zhiliang grow up

lingyuwang· 2017-08-17 12:36:25

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is a part of children, adults and children, many exchanges have the habit of relatives and friends, neighbors love children, even our parents are the same.

adults joke, pay attention to a degree, when we face the child, tease the child's jokes often do not know the propriety, hurt the child, but do not know. There are a lot of children living in the behavior of

children behavior of

" in common, the most "classical" than the "

: your mom and Dad don't you"

"your mother have a brother is not love you oh"

"to call dad, this will give you a red"

"to your mother, I will give you candy"

meal with chopsticks dipped in wine let the children lick

to smoke on the child mouth, let the children feel the

a lot of people and children love to joke that the child frightened adults laughing awfully.

if you kid the baby, "you kid can't help but be funny."!

if the parents came to stop, "I'm not a joke, so seriously? "

children can not cry, parents can not angry, many people call this" Chinese style "tease children."".

over teasing the child is a kind of "bad"

, teasing the child looks as if there is no malice, but open and sensitive to the soul of the child is very cruel, cruel things as a joke, in the end who amused? Some of the children of

parents child conflict especially, even the mother said: "I dare you dare to second child! One of the reasons for

is that adults often use "brother, sister, father and mother," "love you," and the like "tease" children.

online also has such news, there is a child because the father saying "you're not own" joke, have been suffering at the age of more than 50, to do a paternity test, to untie the knot.

" in the first few years of life, children have no ability to distinguish the words of adults is a joke or truth, for adults, many children are confident that the.

when you say to your child, "your parents don't want you", the child really thinks that his parents have abandoned him. This kind of injury is almost equivalent to the loss of an adult's mother and father.

that's how we failed to live up to our child's lack of confidence.

no, your child is more important than

people often say, respect for the child, the child is regarded as an independent person, but most people rarely consider the child's true feelings, opinionated that small children, what all don't understand, in fact, children can understand, but not express.

in the face of others on the child's parents tease, because of the sensibilities not to say, but as parents should do what they can to protect children.

" when children can't fully express, parents should stand up, stop teasing each other's behavior, on the side of that attitude: maybe this is your favorite way of expression, but the children do not love it.

if you feel shy, just find a reason to hold a child, don't let this teasing others.

when a child is older, parents should tell their children that when someone else's words and actions make him feel uncomfortable, he can bravely refuse.

almost every child growing have been teasing adults experience, some people say: people amuse the children, because children love.

but if it hurts, it doesn't matter.

adults make fun of children with age and experience. It's not fun.

isn't fun at all.

", author Qian Zhiliang, teacher of Beijing Normal University. 86 graduate school, returning in 1994, phd. The research area is children development counseling and children education with special needs.

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