Chinese parents, it is time to no longer avoid "love"

Children education like you Japan

zhizihua· 2017-10-12 15:18:29

2013, Zhenjiang two students fall in love, break up for the girls, the boys do not want to be in the fierce opposition and cruelty. The boys premeditated, one night in September, boys chasing girls and chopped the number of knives.

2016 in June 12th, the Xi'an FanYi University campus a couple of college students break due to disputes which caused death strike violently, girl.

2017 in the evening of June 9th, near Guangxi Yulin Jiangbin Road Yinfeng River Bridge, a 15 year old junior high school boys girlfriend suddenly received a phone, emotions became very excited, immediately jumped into the river, died.

" was so close, how to draw sword against? Once so there is love, why a life-and-death struggle? Once so young, why chains lock body? What is wrong? What is it? These students have the wrong

, as the guardian of the parents probably to blame! Whether teachers or parents, all we spare no effort to teach students how to love the motherland, love their parents, love of learning and labor, macro, and never tell the teenagers how: first awakening interest in the opposite sex to love a person? How do you love the people around you? How to fall in love with people?

, why are our parents and teachers reluctant to do so? Because our adult belief is: "the child is still small, grow up, and naturally know."". Ask yourself: if children know how to love, how to deal with the breakup, how to deal with the problem of rival, but there are so many students love is not smooth the murder occurred? Is the ability to love innate? Not quite!

"love" as an advanced human emotion, a basic human ability is not innate, we need parents and teachers from childhood training, we need the correct guidance.

" in China parents and teachers of the dictionary, beautiful and pure love between students does not exist, is not allowed, so the "puppy love" became synonymous with youth love, not into a defense of parents and teachers "persecution" of students. Speaking of this, let Xiao Bian think of once on the Internet once hot Anxi lift middle school "girl behavior standard" special provision. In case of male and female students to the school girls love, 7 special provisions: the behavior of

are not allowed to transfer to

and note the boys; boys in the remote corner of

to recognize the boys alone; "brother", and not giving gifts to boys and boys;

hand in hand or other smoking behavior;

parents when at home, not invited guest at home

to invite boys; boys birthday together; the

and not the boy alone ride a bicycle and other vehicles.

, ask: "how many people can such a school regulation do?" And a few people willingly and gladly to obey? Why are the female students voicing their voices? "Can't you do that?" Will the framers of the rule think, "love comes, can it be blocked by a piece of school rules?"! Is not King Yu combating the flood interception, dredging, in order to avoid flooding.

for teenagers ignorant, warm, pent up love, don't we except by simply brutal beatings to increase the child's sense of shame, in addition to the visit to neurotic violation of children's privacy, in addition to the child's nagging earnestly added boredom, our "Ginger" (parents and teachers) is really helpless the?

" in the western educational culture prevalent today, Xiaobian not fawning, but scientific and correct, humane education practice is indeed worth making.

recently, from Japan's program "roof Advertising Conference" suddenly in the domestic fire, micro-blog tens of thousands of forwarding. The program is in the south of eight Street four junior middle school students, to their favorite object.

grade boys on the roof to Kubota Shengdou station is the first sentence, "the beginning of the new semester, looked under the table, found there sits an angel...... The distance between the angel and me is only 30 centimeters. After that, every day is like a dream".

then he changed the subject said, "but by the school block changed seats! "A burst of laughter.

finished bedding, he began to his eyes Angel Kato said: "I have only 30 cm away from you, and now it is 5.5 meters away from me."! "

" Lanyang miss, please contact with me! "

is a confession of Lanyang started a bit shy, but still bravely loudly rejected

:" although very happy, but I have a boyfriend, I'm sorry. "

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