My child likes a practical joke, how to do?
mamayuedu· 2016-05-24 13:20:40
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"content_img_p" are said to engage in practical jokes is the child's nature. I don't know where to start my day with a practical joke, I repeatedly fall into the trap. Looked at the little guy in the side of laughter, I often have no gas, after all, some practical joke is the initiator of evil. < / P > < p > zhe zhe / > 3 years old, I tease him play, hidden in the corner, he passed, whispered wailing call a, startled him. I am pleased with oneself. Later, this form has been his in his own coin. Once, Zhezhe mother and Zhezhe night running back to the unit to find me. Downstairs, the dark corridor, seeing no one, Zhezhe behind the door cried, really scared me.
Zhezhe will hide in the quilt or cupboard, motionless, let us not find. When he was three or four years old, hidden well often made hey laughter, betray. Now, his self-control ability enhancement, hidden work done well, 10 minutes can not to come out, into the real hide and seek the king. < p > the most outrageous is one night, while I was cooking, humming Wang Feng Song "spring": "if one day, I quietly left & hellip; hellip;" not for a while, I found my backpack is placed in the doorway, mobile phone, wallet, keys and other karaokay club, beside a bottle of cola. My mother asked what happened. At this time, zhe zhe sweet and greasy to gather together to come up, slowly said: "are you to say you have to go away quietly, I can help you get everything ready. I'll get you a coke. I'll have it on my way. This is good to drink cola. "
experts said that children love to engage in mischief is a natural result. Some because usually neglected by their parents, in the hope that their actions cause adult attention; some are curious by nature, want to seek adults require that the consequences of violating; some bad mood and parents communication, use tricks to vent their dissatisfaction, so as to achieve psychological balance; some improper parenting style, blindly spoiled, resulting in children do not understand self-discipline, do whatever you want.
my motivation is not one of them, but to seek an ideal way to answer practical joke in his mind. As asked him to answer "why do you hide it", he said: "you do not say love me, I am very worried about it, I would like to know how much you are worried, in the end I love me! "< German children psychologist Thomas & rsquo; Carl after a study concluded that mischievous children creative and imaginative, later taught the possibility of a well behaved children more and explain said, mischievous behavior did not descend from heaven, and is to design a rich sense of novelty, this to the child's intelligence development is undoubtedly a catalytic. Also can enhance children's independence mischievous children by this behavior than the parents for the specification of the boundaries, on behavior and mentality of a transgressing the attempt and exploration of the unknown world and things. In the process of
Zhezhe engage in practical joke, I feel that he challenged the authority of the state of mind. Because every time he was scared or fooled, without exception, he was particularly happy: at the same time his father embarrassed, that he is not weak. After the painting class, I asked him what he was doing, and he told me that he didn't do anything. I'm angry。 At this point, he smiled, took out a picture of the works, then shouted: "my father was cheated, I was successful! "There is a law of the jungle
frame under the pen of the jungle. And the challenge of parents, stronger than their parents, the confidence to meet the challenges of the future, it should be hidden in the human society, a natural law. < p > a mischievous behavior of success, is the first outbreak of the creativity of children, blindly reprimanded or even punishment will stifle the child mental and physical enthusiasm, will hinder the child's intellectual development. For parents, the right thing to do is to go with the flow, induced by the enthusiasm of the brain will lead to beneficial activities. In this regard, I agree with and listen to the words of the experts.
however, I swear and fellow wits, will be a good start.
believes that there are two full-time career, one is the father's career, one is the cause of the work. Published works have "reading achievement teacher -- the story of 12 outstanding teachers" "journey of reading -- teacher professional growth map". This paper provided by green beans from the real company bookshop, ""