Children do not have friends parents how to crack
mamayuedu· 2016-08-02 08:57:46
good interpersonal skills is an essential foundation of our children, if a child always said you have no friends, so parents should pay attention to, because our children can communication with people good, to the development of their personality, emotional and intellectual ability plays an important role, if the child interpersonal contact some difficulty, we need parents to help and guide the children how to make friends.
first understand reason children have friends of the child's personality to go after targeted guide. For example, some children are very good move, some introverted, not very good to associate with other children.
parents understand and observe this phenomenon, you can start from the side, help and encourage more children into some groups like the residential environment, the children play together, to go to the park to see some shows, etc., to let children experience the fun of communication, in these interactions can also enhance the ability of interpersonal communication.
2, find the nearest friend
if the parents learned some of the reasons should be done after long time preparation, such as on the home of the neighborhood children, with small children can become communication buddy. In general, as long as the security environment, there are several children interested in the game can be played each other, even before each other without too much language, as long as the familiar will slowly further exchanges and understanding.
3, parents personally "with the church"
want to make friends with language expression is also on the one hand, parents can look at how the children's ability to. For example, try to ask the child, when you want to play with other children, what are you going to say? If the child is very appropriate to answer, to affirm and encourage children to keep doing so, if the answer is not very appropriate, parents have to teach children how to say.
, for example, "I want to play this game, can play with you", "I want to play with you, please, there is the most basic courtesy" hello "" please "" thank you "and" you "and" sorry ", but also teach the children to use in interpersonal communication.
usually after school time to pick up their kids, mom and dad and my buddy can meet, talk, invite buddy and children play together, then accompany also introduced to each other in the child to teach children to play better. So several times, the children will slowly try to transition to active contact and into the activities of the children.
4, participate in interactive games
game training is the most effective means of children cooperation skills, parents should encourage their children to participate in the games, let the children into the middle of the other little friends to play, into the group. If there is a park near the home or have children gather to play, parents may wish to take their children to join together, so that children can fully feel the fun of playing with other children of the same age. Usually at home and children can also do some role-playing games, so that children can also be familiar with the various social scenarios encountered in life, children can learn more social etiquette.