Children's character, how to shape can be better
mamayuedu· 2016-10-30 09:18:31
the main factor affecting children's life is the family. And if the family education problems, the children in the school may be more difficult, the child is likely to become a problem children".
" the cultivation of parents is the "Voltaire doctrine", "I don't agree with you, but I will defend to the death your right to say it". From the day they were born, they began to preach with their children, patiently asking for their opinions. If parents do not know how to live, do not know to treat others, and even do not know how to treat their children, then, no matter how high academic level, his spiritual world is difficult to enrich.
1, family relationships affect the child's character
a man if he does not respect his wife, then, his son learned in the school does not respect his female students. If a woman does not respect her husband, then her daughter learns to look down on her male classmates at school.
2, parents in the family and children should often do three things:
and children together with the meal: if there is no special difficulties, the parents had better go home every day and children together. Family common values, in the family around a table to eat in the process of building up.
two is to invite children to repair things: it can be a toy, furniture or clothing, and occasionally invite children to help solve the difficulties in the work.
three is to tell the story of the child and to invite children to tell stories: let the children start to establish a reading and writing habits, so that children learn to read independently as early as possible, develop a lifelong habit of reading. "As long as the people who are still reading, will not completely degenerate, completely degenerate people are not reading the book. "Parents who never tell stories to their children, are irresponsible parents.
3, in the family to guide the child needs a small partner
family good communicators usually clear the same. "In a good family relationship, face to face contact is necessary, it represents a willingness to speak the truth, willing to face each other in order to resolve the misunderstanding - this is actually a kind of expression of love.
4, in the family to guide the child to establish a healthy aesthetic
do not let the child's aesthetic values into a low, sick. Do not think that small, sick, is good. Do not think that strong, it is bad. Do not think that small sparrows, small sheep, dogs are cute, and do not think that the lions, tigers, wolves are bad.